Articles about Couples

The Gifts in Singlehood

The Gifts in Singlehood

Valentines day has never been a big deal to me. I’m much more into the day-to-day expressions of love than the big moments. There is one Valentine’s day that stands out to me though. It was the Valentine’s Day where I mentally shifted and made the decision that my...
It Matters How We Look at Things

It Matters How We Look at Things

I heard somebody make the observation that our vision should be perfect in the year 2020. As a Psychologist in my 18th year of practice I am wildly aware of just how important the way we choose to see things can affect our daily lives. How we look at our lives...
The Crisis of an Affair: Help for the Betrayer

The Crisis of an Affair: Help for the Betrayer

“I said I’m sorry so many times. She knows everything but she keeps on bringing up the same stuff over and over. Why can’t we just move forward? What is the point in bringing up what I did over and over? Is she going to be like this forever?” In the immediate...
The Crisis of an Affair: Help for the Betrayed

The Crisis of an Affair: Help for the Betrayed

You have just discovered your partner’s unfaithfulness. Your world as you have known it has come crashing down around you. The explosion of emotion is intense. Your reactions will range from frozen in shock, to crazed with anger or even jumping into action to regain...
Why Won’t My Partner Read My Mind?

Why Won’t My Partner Read My Mind?

“I want him to read my mind.” Of course, she knew this was impossible, but she was being completely honest. That is what she wanted. Her husband’s eyes widened, recognizing he was just set up for failure in his marriage. This conversation happened ten...
Signs that You May Be in an Enmeshed Relationship

Signs that You May Be in an Enmeshed Relationship

To me, nothing is better on a Friday night than a nice drive, rolling the car windows down, and playing music. The other day on my ride home, I turned on my jazz playlist to an overwhelming volume, put the car in drive, and began filling the cabin with new, fall air....